Why has my desire for sexual intimacy changed?

A decrease in the level of sexual interest is a common concern. The reasons for this are many and may include:

Physical changes such as:

• Difficulty getting an erection, vaginal dryness
• Loss of body movement
• Loss of sensation
• Spasticity
• Pain
• Fatigue
• Difficulty communicating

Emotional / behavioural changes - that may affect the expression of sexuality such as:

• Fear and anxiety
• Depression
• Changes in body image and self esteem
• Behavioural disinhibition
• Changes in role
• Social isolation

Medical conditions such as:

• Thyroid problems, vascular disease, diabetes, hormonal changes
• Potential side effects of some medications

Some of these changes may be temporary and improve over time.  There may be some treatment options for you.  Discuss your concerns with your doctor or sexual health clinician.

Share your concerns and feelings with your partner. Talking with each other may help clarify misunderstandings as well as create chances to work on your intimate relationship.